Getting High

You don't have to drink beer or try those awfully nasty drugs to get high.If you like something very much and are very passionate about it , then the moment you experience it , you get real high.Have you ever been to a rock concert ? have you seen the crowd waving their hands in the air,moving their body to the beat ?They really lose control over themselves and do things which might look weird at all other normal scenarios . If you seen such a sight then you will know what I mean.

Everyone is (should be) passionate about something . I am passionate about dancing and it really gets me high.I haven't learnt dancing through formal classrooms methods.The first time I ever danced was when I was forced to dance by my 9th standard teacher for the school culturals.we danced for the "gopala gopala" song from kadhalan.Then on I have been addicted to dancing.I did participate in few dance competitions in school. In college we had a group and we called ourselves SURFACE CONNECTORS . Except 3 of us , the rest of the surface connectors were new to dancing.(VIKKI was also part of the group ) . We won all the dance events within our college.But we never won in the inter college event.We were good as a group but I guess there were better dance troupes eg: solomon twisters (synchronization at its best ) from Anna univ , Patrician college , guys from MCC and hindustan college . Though we never won any event we really enjoyed dancing . And I guess thats what matters.

I also had a small stint with a professional dance troupe.But I had to stop dancing because of ligament tear . I wish had done more than this . I really wanted to take up dancing seriously .I really want to get back to dancing and experience the amazing feeling ...I wanna get real high again !!!!

Possessiveness

Before going to the post , I got few things to say :
#1) I had modified Sukhanya's idea to suit my requirement .And since she has vetoed it down , I guess its only fair not to post what I did to impress the cute thing . Let me tell you that all your guesses are wrong and you couldn't have thought of such a sweet way of letting someone feel special .okie..okie..no more build ups .
But let me tell you something . I have planned my next move to get closer to the cute thing . I will definitely put that on the blog after it is implemented .I am not putting it now because she reads my blog and I dont want to spoil the surprise .
#2) I have blogrolled some of you guys . Please let me know if I have missed someone out there .
#3) I have made quite a few friends since I have started blogging . And today someone mentioned in his blog that I am the first blogger to be on his friend's list . The statement really made my day. Thanks Jaggu bhai (do have a look at the post).

Nows lets go to the post !!!

In my last visit to Chennai I met a friend who had been absconding for a while .We suspected that he had a girlfriend now and this guess proved to be correct (though we all wondered how a girl could fall him ;-) ) . He narrated how he fell in love with her and all the sweet stories about his love. He had been spending all his time with her and we guessed this was the reason why he hadn't contacted or met any one of us. But he really surprised us by saying that the real reason was that his girlfriend was very possessive and she couldn't stand him talking to another girl. So he kept away from all the girl pals and also from the guys .I asked him why he had to keep away from his friends and why he tolerated her possessiveness.He said that things like these are normal once you are in love and that possessiveness makes him feel secure about the relation.He went on talking about sacrificing once you are in love and all the other usual filmi dialogues.I listened to him and then told him that even Caspar (his pet doggie ) is not chained all the time .He just gave me a dirty look and dropped the topic.

I realised that it is just not the girls who are possessive. Many guys are equally possessive . Its actually worse with guys because they are not only possessive about their girlfriend but also about their sisters (it is termed as "protecting" my sis ) . I believe that possessiveness shouldn't make you feel secure about the relation .It only means your relation is not all that secure . Your girl friend doesn't even trust you when you talk to a girl ...and you call that love ? BALLS ..

Crazy thing ??

Okie people ...I got few comments and also enquiries over mail and phone asking me what was the crazy thing I did to impress the cute thing.I am not putting a post on it ..atleast not for the time being . But I will state a few facts :

#1) No..I didnt kiss her and the french kiss post didn't motivate me enough.
#2)No..I didnt propose to her .
#3)No..I didnt gift the chinna veedu to her .I couldn't like to impress her with expensive gifts.

I gave her something that cost me 45 rupess .Yeah ..it cost me approximately 1 US$.She knows that it is not my original idea .And , of course , I didnt claim any credit for "being innovative" .All that it mattered to me was that I wanted to make her feel special and I believe I succeeded in doing that because she messaged me that night saying she had a great evening and was looking forward to meet me again . I think she will remember that day for a very long time .

Some bloggers already know(approximately atleast ) what was the crazy thing I did . Sukhanya , Preethi , awakeningcoma and Pradeep are the people . I am not sure if I told random access about it . I will let these people vote if they want me to put the crazy thing I did on my blog.If all of them are okie with it , then I will post it.But even if one says a no , then I will not post an article on what I did.

To other bloggers and readers - Guys break your heads and make guesses . Let me know what you think I did to impress her .

Some good news

Hey people ..I have got some good news to share -

#1) Vacation - I had been planning for a vacation for quite some time but I wasn't sure if I had get leave.Of course , I am not used to asking permissions and this made things difficult.On tuesday evening , I walked to my boss and "informed" him that I will be on leave for the rest of week and before he could say something i walked away from him :-). I feel sorry for my boss because he has got to put up with me ...and at times I wonder if I am getting pampered at office :-) .I just hope that I am not fired when I go back to office on monday :-) .

#2) Chinna Veedu ;-) - Ever since I had started working , my dad has been trying to educate me on saving money .He hadn't been successful..atleast in the initial few months when I had started working .By the 20th of the month I could have spend all the money and could go to my dad for more money :-) .So my dad told me about the "chinna veedu" concept . Well ..what he meant was that I should invest in property ..err...a house or so .The chinna veedu concept got my attention .Okie ..if you guys dont know what "chinna veedu " means ..hmm..it is actually means a small house ..and also it refers to "keeping a mistress" . My dad was referrring to a small house .So guys , I have invested in chinna veedu , as in, a 2BHK apartment in the outskirts of the Chennai city .The registration was done on wednesday .It means that I am the owner of a 2BHK apartment . I can't believe this !!!!

#3)Cute thing - I met the cute thing the other day !!! yahooooooooooooooo...You might recall that last time when she had extended her hand to give a handshake I had asked her "how did you know I was going to ask for your hand" .This time things were different . I had planned to use handshake as an excuse to hold her hand and I extended my hand.She gave me a no-funny-statement-please look and shook hands for less than 5 milliseconds :-(( . ..okie ..am exxagerating a bit.Neways , it wasnt the best way to go .I guess one meeting and few phone calls had created an impression about me ...and it wasnt all that nice impression.She thinks that I am capable of doing crazy things and I lived upto her expectaions .I did something very crazy the other day and I really surprised her . She had just one word to describe it and the word was "wwoooooooowww" . She had a long smile on her face for a loooooonnnnnnggggggg time .I am flying people :-).

At office - polambals

Normally , I prefer to work between 8 to 5 .Few weeks back , I surprised myself by taking up more responsibilities and working for long works.I actually kinda enjoy my new responsibilities and am really hooked to work.I even worked on 2 saturdays in a month . Thats a great thing considering that am a strict no-no when it comes to working in the weekend .And to add more , I have been working so much that I use a stopwatch to time I how long I am in the restroom.That shows my dedication .No..no..there is no new good looking babe in my office whos been my motivation.Trust me ..I am really working hard. Is it that hard to believe ?
After getting "dewercs" (thats "screwed" spelled backwards ;-) ) , we landed up in soup.Its one of those things , when everything goes wrong and its no ones fault.And attending the meeting is like attending funeral.We had such a funeral today .Everyone was so serious.The school boy in my found this very funny.Though I was trying to control my laughter , I couldn't supress my smile.I got a stare from my boss and I looked away.The school boy in me surfaced again.I was going to say "boss ..I didnt do anything ..for that matter ..I didn't even work" . But luckily , I controlled myself this time and didn't make things worse. phew !!!
I thought I had relax by watching RGV's "james" .But my boss has given more work.Guess Nisha kothari has got to wait.But hey ..we had planned to watch Nila today..I mean watch A..Ah..;-)

@Vee-Jay - Its more of a coincidence that I am writing sequel to "at office " .Trust me !!!

Blogs

For the past few days mes been hooked to working .And so couldnt post much articles out here .But of course I read as many blogs as possible and try to put my comments .Some of my comments "are a bit too long"/"needs more attention" and I decided to post it here instead .

sudhanarayan- I happened to read a post by Sudhanarayan regarding losing cell phones.I realise that most of us are very casual about that . We just go about buying a new one .I must warn you that this might lead you to trouble.I know a guy who had lost his cell phone and which resulted in him getting arrested .Serious !!!Am not joking .He had lost his cell phone .Actually speaking he wasnt sure if he had lost it or his roomies were using it .He didnt care much because he was using a prepaid connection and in the worst case scenario he could buy new cell and a new connection.Two days after he had lost the phone , he was picked up by the local police and was accused of calling up a girl and talking "shit" to her .The girl's dad was a pretty big shot and this made things worse for this guy .Of course , the police beat him up (yeah ..imagine him in his undies and begging for mercy ) .Luckily , the culprits had called the girl even after this guy was arrested .So he was released later.His only consolation ...he was beaten by lady constables.:-) .So better be careful guys ..


Priya - Priya has taken the responsiblity of starting our rowdy gang.Currently , five of us , ie) , myself , priya ,preethi, sukhanya and random access are the core members of this gang .We could like more ppl to join us .Of course , there are some issues to be addressed ..such as defining "rowdism" .Since Priya is busy with cutting hands and legs of our rivals and mes caught with some work in office , I request the other members or the wanna-be members to put a post defining "rowdism" and the entry criteria for the group .
The group members and wanna-be members please recommend the bloggers who deserve to be in our group.And also do suggest us name for the group.We did get lotsa suggestion regd this .Do pour in more.May be we will announce a gift (eg : kathi , cycle chain etc ) if we select the name suggested by you.

@priya -
awakeningcoma is definitely worthy to be in our gang.Do read his article on mis[s]understanding
Visithra also looks worthy.
Vinesh - I dont think I need to talk much abt him .
Do let us know your decision :-).

French Kiss

I got this forward from a friend which had tips about the french kissing.Well ..I am sure that I have got your attention now ;-) .Remember , this is only for the young and '18 till I die ' attitude people.So all the oldies and kela bolts please stay away from this post .Don't tell me I didn't warn you.And of course , if you are sathyaraj's fan and you still consider yourself to be in high school , then you can read it too .

(Am not sure if you will find it informative and enlightening or you had go "hmmmmm..dude tell me something new " .If you think you know better , then do add your thoughts in the comments ;-) )

French Kissing tips
This is a guide to basic kissing, i.e. you learn the basics and get the basics right, then experiment and try different styles and more advanced techniques. The basics
1. Brush your teeth, get a good bath, nicely groomed and clean and fresh, before meeting the other person. There's nothing worse than kissing the rear end of a garbage truck
2. Get into a comfortable position - you can't kiss if your back feels like it's gonna break. Suggestion - Sit side by side on a comfy sofa.
3. Hold your lover , firmly but gently - don't cause pain. Suggestion would be to hold the shoulders, the neck or gently on the side of the face, one side or both sides.
4. Move your faces closer. Don't bump noses. Suggestion would be the guy angle his face slightly so you don't bump noses.
5. Kiss gently, normal closed lips kissing, and close your eyes. Closing your eyes increases the sensations you feel, and also sets the mood.
6. Continue kissing gently. Get comfortable with simple closed lips, lip-to-lip kissing before going anywhere else.
7. If fine till here, tentatively, slowly and lightly draw your tongue across the other person's lips.
8. Chances are from here, if the other person lightly parts her tongue, slowly explore the other person's tongue in a light licking motion.
9. The tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is why tongue to tongue is the essence of french kissing.
10. After you've tried lightly licking the other person's tongue, you can try sucking on it, wrestling with it ( see if you can hold it to the floor of her mouth ) and other things like that.
11. Explore the other areas of the mouth. Especially the roof of the mouth. Lightly lick, or tickle the area with your tongue.
12. Don't bite. whatever you do, don't bite.
13. Don't swing your tongue round and round like a windmill. Explore lightly, don't drill your way through.
14. Breathe through your nose. Breathe through your nose. I say again, breathe through your nose.
15. Follow so far? You can lightly use your hands too, lightly rubbing the other person. Suggestions, along the waist, along the back, the arms, especially the inside of the arm, the neck, maybe running your fingers through her hair. Again, don't cause pain.
16. Continue kissing.


P.S : Hey people , welcome a new blogger .Have a look at his blog and do encourage him .

Best pre-birthday bash !!!

I feel sorry for my friend because she celebrates her birthday when the world mourns for the 911 attack.Basically its a tragedy that she came into existence in this world.And more tragedy that she was born on sept. 11 .Its kinda jinxed ...Not just to her but also to her sweet friends .Yes people , the cute girl I was supposed to meet ..the day I was really looking forward to , flopped ...I couldn't meet her.The cute thing's relative met with an freaky accident and I believe its all to do with my friends luck which got rubbed on me.... orey feelings mams :-((.So guys can laugh as much as you want .

But the weekend was not all that bad because my friend decided to celebrate her birthday in a meaningful way.And she did it in style.On saturday (the day before her b'day ) , she called me to say that she was going to visit an orphanage in kottur .She had decided to sponsor food to the children for that particular day.Myself and three of her other friends went around 1 O'clock .The kids were praying in the prayer assembly hall.We waited till they finished praying and then we started serving them food.Not a single kid touched the food even though the food was kept on their plate .They all stood and prayed together.They thanked the lord for the food and then thanked our friend and her family for providing them food.It was really a touchie and moving experience .

The kids were pretty happy go jolly type.They were curious about the ear stud I was wearing and they started talking to me . One of them was also named Jagan and we made friends quickly.You should have seen the kids helping each other ..especially the elder ones.I don't think I ever ate my lunch without picking up a fight with my sis.

The kids face lit up when they were served ice cream and choclates.It was really nice to see them smile . I think I could remember this weekend for that one day (of course I prefer to forget the Rendezvous with the cute thing that never took place and like to make it up for that ) .

And to my friend - I know you are reading this ...I do pull your leg often and say things that might irritate you .I know I have never said anything nice to you .But you should know that you mean a lot to me .You are second most sweetest girl I know (the first one is your cute friend ;-) ) .And yeah ..your gift and a hug ..is waiting for you da.Will give it to you next time we meet (Jagan late-ah gift kuduthalum latest-ah kudupan ;-) ).

Chennai again

Friday again ....and its time to catch a train back to Chennai .I go to Chennai every alternate weekend - and everytime I look forward to the trip.This time I am more enthu about going to Chennai due to 2 reasons :

#)my friends birthday falls on this weekend.So we will have great time partying.
#)remember the "love at first sight girl" ? I will be meeting her again (hopefully) .Machi ,
avala nenachavey manasula minnale payathu .Just cant help it.

will update after I come back from Chennai .

At office - in debt

I am in debt and I am enjoying repaying it .I recommend you too borrow some money and enjoy the feel of repaying it back .

I wanted to buy a map of Bangalore.I am new here and I dont know my way around.Not that the map shows the way to commute (most of the roads here are one way and they change the rules very often ..so the map may not be all that useful) .But what the heck ..I wanted it ..So lets get going . I found a map book in a local book store and it was priced around Rs.50 .I didn't have cash on me and they didnt accept plastic.So I borrowed money from my colleague and got the book.I am still repaying the money !!!!

So whats that I do that makes it interesting ? Once in every 2-3 days , I keep a Re.1 or 50 paise coin on her table (ie her work place ) .If its not her day ..and if shes very unfortunate , then she finds a 10 paise coin on her table .This irritates her .This has been going on for one and half months and I have managed to repay Rs.6 .I still owe her Rs.44 :-) .And every time I keep some coins at her desk , I tell her how much I have repaid and how much I still owe her.Shes frustrated . She told me its okay if I don't pay her back.But thats not fun ..or is it ? I rejected her offer then and there

...and am looking out for 5 paise coins now ..So ppl ..go and borrow money ..and ensoi the sadistic pleasure of returning back the money :-)

Tagged

Vee-jay and vatsan tagged me.So here I go :

Seven things you plan to do before you die!!

Be someone’s idol (if someone takes you as his/her idol , then you have lived a good life)
Start my own business
Sky diving
Travel around the world
Buy as many bikes as possible .Mes crazy about bikes !!!
Learn horse riding
As a software engineer , I have worked in lots of project.Someday I could like to know what I was doing !!!


Seven things you can do!!

Make more friends
Grow my hair long
Go for jogging
Be a bit formal .Mes very casual
Get back to dancing
Read as many books as possible
Watch plays


Seven things you can't do!!!
Not being frank
Talk to people who show off
Drive a car
Be emotional
Speak in one language for a long time . I mix english and tamil
And at times hindi.
Sleep in train
Keep my eyes off a beautiful girl


Seven things that attract you to the opposite sex!!

Smart/intelligent talks
Sense of humour
Eyes
Down to earth nature
Smile
Shouldn’t be possessive in nature
Should be very independent

Seven things you say most!!!

Angey thaan Jagan nikkuran
Edhoo da
Freak
Sappi matter-u
Kalambu ..kalambu kathu varatum
Naan engineer illai ..porrikki
Super appu

Seven celebrity crushes!!!
Genelia D’souza (‘BOYS’ movie le vara kattai )
Genelia D’souza
Genelia D’souza
Genelia D’souza
Genelia D’souza
Genelia D’souza
I am crazy about her

Seven people you want to take this quiz..
Vikki
Preethzzz
Shaanawaz
Silverine
Jeevan
Cutefreaky
SudhaNarayan



Okie , So if you are not sure what tagging means (I didn’t know ..had to find it out from Vee-Jay ) then let me explain.Basically you go about answering all the “seven….” And put it on your blog.NO..No..you can’t stop there .You will also have to find and list seven scapegoats .I have been honoured by two people who used me as their victim!!!


I hereby declare that the above furnished details are true to the best of my imagination.
And also any reference to any living or dead person is purely intentional .(the above are borrowed statements ..not mine ).

The best way to propose!!!!

Today I got a video forward from my friend.It was a nokia ad in which a guy sends pictures to his girlfriend through his cell phone.The pictures when put together conveys the message "will you marry me?" .It was a very cool and romantic kinda ad.This set me thinking .Imagine if you take great pains (normally everyone does ) and you get a negative answer from the other person.For people like me who are used to hearing "no" , it is perfectly fine (actually I prefer a 'no' to a 'yes' ....no no ..its not the sour grapes story ).But if you are not okay with a no ? Well , then you must hear to how my colleague's friend proposed.It is the best way to go about it .

The hero and his love interest studied in the same class in an Australian Univ.They knew each other but you couldn't term their relation as "close friends " or anything of that sort.He was determined to propose to her.He knew that she could jog every day at a particular time.He went and waited for her at the park.

Now start your stopwatch .
He : I love you.Do you love me ?
She : hmmmmmmmmm...takes about 2 secs and then....
She : No.
He : Okie ,fine. Goes about his way.
Now stop your stopwatch.
It took all but 4 odd seconds .

How cool was that ? I think it was super cool .He didnt waste time in deciding how to propose to her .And he didnt waste his time nor hers telling her how much he loved her and why she should accept it.No talks that could irriate the girl .No boring lectures about love.It was just straight and point blank shot.If she did love him or had a crush she could have said something like "why you asking me " or a "yes" but surely not a very "definitely no" kind of answer.He says he could have reacted the same way if she had said yes.He claims he couldnt have been carried away.And how did react to the negative answer ? he went back to his ways.No time wasted cribbing about it .The reason - He says no point in feeling sorry for a relation that never was.Thats some attitude !!!!

At office

They wanted us to attend training this week.

Most of us didn't want to attend the training because we thought there are better things to do than going back to classes.

They said lunch will be provided for those who attend training.

This whole week we all had free lunch :-) .

Side effects: Mes working on a saturday :-((